Hey thanks everyone for the replies! Your encouragement and advice means so much to me! I don't feel quite so alone in this huge self-test when I know there are others out there in a similar boat, or just cheering me on. Gives that extra oomph, you know?
The training is going really well, better than I even expected!
My revised "catch up" training schedule is:
2 days- 3 mile run
2 days- weight lifting
2 days- rest (days before and after long run)
1 long run- jumped from 6 to 8, then did 9.3 yesterday. next weekend i'll get up to 10.5 (or 11 if i feel ok) and taper from there.
I'm feeling really good. I am terrified of injury, so i literally take every precaution. I've been using this month to experiment with what sports drink products etc. I like, which clothes are the most comfortable, Ice, Ibuprofen, rest, lots of sleep, stretching, etc... So far just light muscle soreness for a couple days, and I am starting to notice some light ligament (i am guessing?) soreness that seems to go away after a couple of days. Most of the pain is in my hips (I think I have "Popping hip syndrome") and may need to figure out some PT type excercizes that will help.
I think one of the biggest things that has helped me, actually, is listening to audiobooks instead of music. A lot of people have been looking at me strange when I say that, but what it has done is really cut out the inner mental struggle. I get bored with music, and then it turns into an arguement with myself to keep going. The audiobooks really keep my mind engaged in a different way. I realized, that the miles have passed before I even had a chance to argue with myself! It's really made running even more enjoyable for me. I do appreciate no headphones on some days, or music on others, but for the long runs, this has made all the difference for me.
The other 2 things very helpful things have been my hydration belt with water/gatorade (i really noticed a difference in my energy) and the COOL WEATHER! It rained on my last run, which was Glorious!
I'm still pretty slow, but I"m not focusing on that right now, and just trying to cover the distance with out injury. My next goal after i cross that finish line, is to work on my speed a bit!

xoxoxo thanks all for your encouragement!